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Ohh, Inica  , I am very sorry for your husband's friend and for your worries. You got a wake up call about what COULD happen to you and that can be very frightening. When my mother was diagnosed with a GBM, I got my wake up call  . I hope you can adopt the Aussie attitude: "No worries." At this point, that is probably easier said than done.
You know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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2005 Recurrence this time said to be an Oligodendroglioma grade 3, same location.
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 6:09 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Thanks Jim- I know
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tcaswell
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| Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 4:28 pm Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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I will be praying that everything turns out okay for you! I was reading your story last night, and you really inspired me to try & keep strong. I was just amazed how much you've been through, and you still manage to encourage & help others with their worries/concerns. Anyhow, you are in my thoughs & prayers!
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| Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:50 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Thanks Tracy I try. all i can say.
Alot of the time i have no idea, or what to say??? Just want that person to know, that they are not alone, and i'm thinking of them- till somone can reply to them better.. But thank you.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 5:44 pm Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Ok after many many many years, I have finally got the nerve and the stupid idea to look up/find. The only other guy I had slept with (if you could call IT that). Who gave me the STD- that "caused" the Cancer.....
Had help from a great friend who understands I needed to do this. We searched the web and found him. I'm not sure what to do, if anything ?
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 10:27 pm Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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yeah it is waying on my mnd- maybe too much.
This guy hasn't changed, still trying to be a ladies man and flirt and sleeze like he did.
I don't want to say hey, you gave me cancer... (well a lot of me does).
I think i'd like to talk to him, and say- Hi, i'm married now, have a beautiful child. Tell him what i have been up to- then say remember the night you used me- spiked my drink and....... well you gave me STD- and that caused Cancer.
Or something a little less meanie. I just would like him to know his actions. The consencance- but say it like, 'i'd like you to know, for yourself and others.... And how deadly it is for a Female....
Grrrrrrr-  feeling a little green right now.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:04 pm Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 4:10 pm Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Ok-
I recieved a text message on my phone from this guy. He wanted to catch up online, So to do it safely, i opened another account (with help of course- hopeless), so I could easily ban or delete this acount, if i needed to. Plus would also keep our regular e-mail and address secure.
We started talking, he he start hitting onto me- he hadn't changed, a real ladies man. But being older and more mature, It has become more sleezy.
Matt wasn't happy with this decsion to talk with him, matt felt i should have just personally e-mails all he girls on this guys myspace. I couldn't do that, how awful to find out that way...
We got talking about my girlfriend and his friend and whats been happening the last few years. Then about that night. He rembered.....Anyway long story short. I told him. With some insults, some hard truths, some mean and awful words. He says- "nope, you have the wrong person, mate." I explain to him, that it must be a shock- and why i wanted him to know, and how I know 100% it was him. How i wasn't placing any blame- but how it had Caused my cevical Cancer, and how dangerous it is for a women to contract...
Well, like i said abusive and extream words later. I siad For him to get checked, if not for me- then himself, and every other female out there. He told me he is clean...( how can this be?????) He said he had a full check up before he had a serious relationship with a girl, and was cleared, that was a few years ago....
well, what can i say? Just that I had it, got from him 10 years ago, and to keep checking and keep safe....
Crying or Very sad - definatly a dark place right now. Would I have done it again- sure. Even if it is just a seed in his mind, or makes him think about it, I would have saved someone, well, maybe.
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| Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 12:59 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Remeber the friend I was telling you about.
M (her name) Has now been told she'll only have a wek or so...Which as we all know- you never excautly know.
They opened her up and saw she was terminal resewed her and said go home. She has 3 beautiful children, the eldest around 12 or so , i think, the youngest is around 1.....
She has decided to have a bed at home and die at home. No one knows, only her family. her bestfriend, and I.
A question I ask over, and over, WHY? Why not the guy on the corner who is a junkie, The women who atempts suiside. The ones who drink smoke and have no living life.
WHY?
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| Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 9:44 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Oh my gosh, that is so sad! I will deff. be praying for her & her family!  |
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| Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 2:11 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Thanks- I think she needs the most she can get. Even I just hope for a peaceful and painfree passing.
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| Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 6:49 am Post subject: Re: My Story. |
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Hi All.
Sorry  I haven't droped off the face of the earth. I am Still here.
All my App. have been changed to another month. So another wait.
On other news. My friend who i have mentioned earlier, Has passed away. Leaving her3 beautiful children. 2 girls and a little boy of 20 months old. A very big Funeral of around 250 people, Opening song of "your the voice" John Farman (Aussie singer) and closed with "dancing queen" ABBA.- she sure loved to dance. She will be missed dearly.
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